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Are You Helping Your Child Grow In Christ?

…Impress (these commandments) on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Deuteronomy 6: 6-7

 

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Do you know what this is? Each dot represents an hour. This is how many hours the average child spends with their parents each year. About 3,466 hour a year. This excludes time spent in school

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The red dots represent how many hours the average child of church going families spend in actual Bible Study time. Just 40 hours a year and that is if they attend Sunday and Wednesday.

 

There is no way for the church to teach and train our children to love God with all their heart, soul, mind and strength. We cannot put all the responsibility on the church to train our children to be committed Christians.

As parents, we need to be working with our children to help them become all that God wants them to be. We need to be encouraging them to read their Bibles. We need to encourage them to attend Sunday School and other church functions.

Our children’s literature has undergone some wonderful changes. One being that our Preschoolers, Children and Youth and most of our Adults are all learning the same thing. Obviously it is on different age levels and sometimes the application of the story may be different. But here are two of the biggest changes:

  1. On the back of all the student take home pages is a summary of what they learned in Sunday School that day and how to apply it to their lives. They give a suggestion or two as to how to help them apply the lesson to their lives that week
  2. Each month the children bring home a piece called More for grades 1-2, Adventure for grades 3-4, and Bible Express for grades 5-6. These bring home pieces have daily Bible readings which will help your child learn and apply the Bible Story and Application.

The bottom line is that it is our responsibility as parents to train our children about the things of God. The church should be supporting what you do at home. What do we need to do differently at home to help our children grow? Are we the kind of Christians that we hope our children grow up to be?

 

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FOCUSED

One of the casualties of aging to which I find myself a victim is the dimming of the eyes.  Ecclesiastes 12 counsels the young person to remember God, their Creator, in their youth before the aging process takes over and various faculties, as listed in verses 1-7, are diminished.

Clear eyesight when we are young may be something we take for granted. However, as we age the realization that our vision is not as sharp as it once was takes hold. “Readers” become standard fare for all intricate tasks. Our once keen laser sharp focus is now blurry and in need of help to restore its youthfulness. That restoration is found through glasses or some sort of rejuvenating surgery. Especially in the early stages of this degenerative eye problem we may be able to fake it and get by, but eventually we must relent and do something to correct the problem.

There is a parallel between physical and spiritual vision. “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” was written in the early 20th century. The hymn writer, Helen Lemmel, was strongly influenced by the artist and later little-known missionary, Lilias Trotter. Miss Trotter started off as an aspiring artist but early on felt a call from God to reach the lost. She began her ministry by rescuing prostitutes from the streets of London. Later she went to Africa, without missionary funding, and served for over forty years. While there she penned a poem that would greatly influence the writing of the hymn “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus.”  The poem was entitled “Focused: A Story and Song.” 

The poem centers around focusing one’s attentions fully and completely upon God. She writes that Satan knows that if a person uses all their powers of concentration on being led by God’s Spirit, they will have a great intensity and impact upon those to whom they are called to minister. Lilias Trotter, writing in a more formal use of the English language than we are accustomed, shares some timeless insights which could very easily have been written today but with a different accent. She writes: “Never has it been so easy to live in half a dozen good harmless worlds at once—art, music, social science, games, motoring, the following of some profession, and so on. And between them we run the risk of drifting about, the ‘good’ hiding the ‘best’ even more effectually than it could be hidden downright frivolity with its smothered heartache at its own emptiness.”

The “good” hiding the “best” leads us to emptiness.  Could this be true of us today especially as American Christians? Have we sought the “good” while missing the “best”? The chorus of the hymn, which we will be singing in worship this Sunday, says it best.

                Turn your eyes upon Jesus, Look full in His wonderful face,                                                                                                                                        And the things of earth will grow strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace.

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