Joy… Even in Pain!

Sunday Pastor Josh preached an outstanding and challenging sermon about how to maintain Joy in all circumstances. Philippians 4:4. Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! (NIV)

Joy in all circumstances is difficult! We all undergo trials, heartaches, disappointments and even tragedies that have the capacity to diminish our joy, especially IF our joy is dependent upon our circumstances. Pastor Josh reminded us that our joy is not dependent upon our situation or condition, but rather a person, Jesus Christ!

Paul, while writing from a prison jail cell, penned these words.

…for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through Him who gives me strength. (Philippians 4:11-13) (NIV)

The “take away” I drew from the sermon Sunday morning and Sunday night is this: The closer we move toward God, with full dependence upon Him, the more content and joyous we will become!

During the Christmas season I often think of my parents. They both passed away in 2003; my dad on March 12 and my mom on November 22. It was a hard, painful and challenging time. Through this experience, I truly learned why we use the word “heart-ache” to describe the loss of someone close to us. I remember walking in the mornings; crying… languishing in prayer asking God – Why? My chest physically hurt with an intense pressure that I can only relate to that period of my life. After much prayer and searching God’s Word, I finally reached a point of asking myself did I really believe all that I had been taught about God, heaven, and our purpose in this world? I don’t recall a particular Scripture, song, or word from an individual but eventually…. I realized it doesn’t matter “why” I lost both my parents in the same year. It did matter how I responded to the loss. Would I believe and move forward, or would I be stuck in the miry pit of self-pity and despair? I chose faith. It wasn’t easy, and it wasn’t quick, but I chose to believe!

One of the images that remain constant in my memory as my mother reached her final days was her attitude. She went in for elective heart valve surgery in September. She walked into the hospital a pretty healthy individual. The surgery had complications and what should have been a somewhat routine surgery went woefully wrong. She remained in ICU for most of the next three months until her passing on November 22.
Even when in pain and discomfort my mother had a smile on her face. For someone who had suffered greatly and was suffering at the moment– when awake, she had a smile. She couldn’t talk because of a trach but greeted each person who came to see her with a gracious smile. Sure, she was naturally a giving, loving person, but I think it was deeper than that. She had a connection with someone greater. She knew her final home was not this world, but was content to live here or move on to her Heavenly home. She was at peace.

That is the Joy of which Paul writes about in Philippians 4. Unspeakable Joy–a deep Peace that makes no sense to the casual observer. It comes to us when we draw near the supplier of Joy – our Savior and Lord, Jesus Christ! The closer we get to Him the more like Him we become. That is the object of this life, to teach us that type of dependence upon our Creator God! It takes a shift in focus and a directional move toward the Joy giver. What do you choose?

Keith

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One of the casualties of aging to which I find myself a victim is the dimming of the eyes.  Ecclesiastes 12 counsels the young person to remember God, their Creator, in their youth before the aging process takes over and various faculties, as listed in verses 1-7, are diminished.

Clear eyesight when we are young may be something we take for granted. However, as we age the realization that our vision is not as sharp as it once was takes hold. “Readers” become standard fare for all intricate tasks. Our once keen laser sharp focus is now blurry and in need of help to restore its youthfulness. That restoration is found through glasses or some sort of rejuvenating surgery. Especially in the early stages of this degenerative eye problem we may be able to fake it and get by, but eventually we must relent and do something to correct the problem.

There is a parallel between physical and spiritual vision. “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” was written in the early 20th century. The hymn writer, Helen Lemmel, was strongly influenced by the artist and later little-known missionary, Lilias Trotter. Miss Trotter started off as an aspiring artist but early on felt a call from God to reach the lost. She began her ministry by rescuing prostitutes from the streets of London. Later she went to Africa, without missionary funding, and served for over forty years. While there she penned a poem that would greatly influence the writing of the hymn “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus.”  The poem was entitled “Focused: A Story and Song.” 

The poem centers around focusing one’s attentions fully and completely upon God. She writes that Satan knows that if a person uses all their powers of concentration on being led by God’s Spirit, they will have a great intensity and impact upon those to whom they are called to minister. Lilias Trotter, writing in a more formal use of the English language than we are accustomed, shares some timeless insights which could very easily have been written today but with a different accent. She writes: “Never has it been so easy to live in half a dozen good harmless worlds at once—art, music, social science, games, motoring, the following of some profession, and so on. And between them we run the risk of drifting about, the ‘good’ hiding the ‘best’ even more effectually than it could be hidden downright frivolity with its smothered heartache at its own emptiness.”

The “good” hiding the “best” leads us to emptiness.  Could this be true of us today especially as American Christians? Have we sought the “good” while missing the “best”? The chorus of the hymn, which we will be singing in worship this Sunday, says it best.

                Turn your eyes upon Jesus, Look full in His wonderful face,                                                                                                                                        And the things of earth will grow strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace.

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